Holding the Ropes
Interfaith Dialogue & Reflections Surrounding the War
by Nazhath Faheema
A blog series that follows the events, dialogues and reflections experienced by Nazhath Faheema in the aftermath of the 2023 Israel-Hamas war in Gaza. Triggered by the Hamas attack on Israel on 7 October 2023 and Israel’s military response, there continues to be widespread destruction and civilian displacement in Gaza. Against this backdrop, Nazhath Faheema, through her reflections, provides insights into the dynamics of the war, its impact on interfaith relations, and the inherent challenges and opportunities in fostering understanding and empathy between Jewish and Muslim communities.
Preface
In selecting the title "Holding the Ropes: Interfaith Dialogue & Reflections Surrounding the Israel-Gaza War" for this blog series, I am mindful of the potential sensitivity surrounding these words. I recognize that the term 'war' is contentious, especially among those who perceive the situation in Gaza as a form of genocide against Palestinians living under Israeli occupation. Additionally, addressing interfaith friendships against the backdrop of the Israel-Gaza conflict may be seen as provocative, though I do not intend to suggest that the conflict is inherently interreligious.
This series explores the emotional and relational complexities experienced by individuals of diverse faiths striving to maintain connections amidst the fog of conflict. Through my encounters and reflections, I discover challenges, conflicts, and moments of resilience that emerge when friendships navigate the turbulent waters of war. While I aim to share numerous experiences, I have also curated some for privacy and personal introspection. Understandably, where necessary I have refrained from sharing photos and details of the people involved in some of these safe-space dialogues.
While I acknowledge that my perspective may be biased and shaped by my experiences and context, I seek to contribute to a deeper understanding of the war through these personal narratives. While the war is not inherently religious, it undoubtedly impacts the fabric of our diverse religious communities.
I am prepared for differing reactions and responses to this narrative, understanding that certain viewpoints may provoke judgment, questions, and criticisms. Nevertheless, I hope this series catalyzes broader discussions about the complexities of interfaith friendships amidst political conflicts.
I recognize that there are individuals grappling with conflicting narratives, truth battles, navigating tensions between opposing sides, and preserving friendships amid challenging circumstances. "Holding the Ropes" ultimately tells a story of resilience and unwavering commitment to interfaith friendship, transcending the devastating backdrop of the 2023 Israel-Gaza war.
A Week Before the War Began
Before delving into my experiences during the 2023 Israel-Gaza war, briefly examining the days immediately before October 7, 2023, is essential. Gaining insight into this specific timeframe is crucial for comprehending the profound impact of the ensuing war on me.
7th October 2023
At midnight, on the eve of October 7, 2023, I reflected on recent interfaith dialogues, not only those involving Jewish-Muslim relations but also other areas. I took to social media to share my thoughts in a post titled "Interfaith Dialogue: The Lonely Middle-Man." In it, I expressed the sense of isolation that often accompanies interfaith dialogue, along with the fear of judgment and the concern of being perceived as a less devout Muslim. My experiences between October 4th and 6th underscored the emotional toll of this work, as it requires intellectual engagement and a profound capacity for empathy with the emotions and experiences of others in the room. Engaging in such dialogues without veering into debate, particularly on controversial topics, presents a significant challenge.
At sunrise, I woke up to the news about Hamas launching an unprecedented attack on Israel. US President Joe Biden referred to this as the “deadliest day for Jews since the Holocaust”. Israel retaliated, with Benjamin Netanyahu committing to dismantle Hamas' authority in the Gaza Strip. This led to a military response that has now inflicted extensive damage on Gaza. Amidst this turmoil, interfaith relations among Jews, Muslims, and Christians, already intertwined with the enduring Israeli-Palestinian conflict, anticipating strain.
Inspired by Prophet Noah on the Ark of Faith: Today, We Are Still on the Bridge
Recently, in reflecting on dialogues with friends engaged in interfaith work, I was struck by how challenging and complex their situations have become. These individuals, navigating daily difficulties, embody the resilience required to maintain dialogue amidst global tensions. Such bridges—fragile yet essential—demand the presence of rational and calm individuals committed to fostering sustainable conversation.
A Rosh Hashanah Dialogue : A Year Since 7th October 2023
The 7th of October stands as a reminder of our vow to one another, and to our interfaith friendship. For this we must remain strong, and keep our faiths and spirit strong.
We smile not because we are complicit, ignorant or apathetic, but because we feel stronger, together.
A Reflection of Tisha B’Av & Diverging Paths
This photo captures one of the most challenging interfaith dialogues, where I sought to find a common ground of humanity amidst the confusing and conflicting positions. The dialogue also revealed unspoken truths about our respective paths, both converging towards the Holiness of this sacred place.
Interfaith Dialogues in Haifa and Jerusalem Against Backdrop of War
In May 2024, my journey to Haifa and Jerusalem was a profound exploration of interfaith dialogue amidst a context of deep-seated conflict and complex political realities.
Jerusalem: Where Our Religions Meet But Interfaith Dialogue Struggles
Walking through Jerusalem in May 2024, against the backdrop of war, I felt an overwhelming sense of connection intertwined with a deep feeling of division. It’s a shame that interfaith dialogue has faltered in this very place where religions meet and coexist, albeit with struggle. As I passed through the Muslim, Jewish, and Christian quarters of the Old City and spent time with Christians, Jews, and Muslims, I realised how religious history, which unites these communities through shared heritage and tradition, has become deeply entangled in narratives and politics driven by agendas of control and possession.
Interfaith Dialogue Gone Wrong
Engaging in discussions with Rabbi Yakov Meir Nagen, Rabbi Mordechai Bar-Or, and Eli Bar-on prompted a profound exploration of religious identity. Understanding one’s religiosity emerged as a crucial precursor to meaningful dialogue, offering insights into the dynamics of faith, emotions, and sentiments.
Chat about Jewish-Muslim Interfaith Diplomacy in Harry S Truman Research Institute for the Advancement of Peace
The conversation moved around my concerns regarding the recent erosion of confidence in international law, institutions, and diplomacy. The misuse of religion by extremists and politicians to incite hatred has undermined the belief that religion promotes peace. Despite prolonged efforts, wars persist, leading to a systematic loss of human rights, peace, and security. There’s a prevailing sense of despair, signaling the potential creation of a new generation entrenched in hostility.
Dialogue with Al-Muwahidun Community in Daliyat Al-Karmel, Haifa
I delved into their history, faith, philosophy, culture, traditions, nationality, and politics during my time with them. I also shared about my identity as a Tamil Muslim.
Mahmoud MoSQUE in Haifa and Interfaith Relations
This rare multi-faith solidarity gathering was facilitated by the Haifa Laboratory for Religious Studies and the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community, illustrating a commitment to interreligious harmony in Haifa, Israel.
Israel-Gaza War: Why do Interfaith Dialogues, Popular in Peaceful Times, Collapse During Humanitarian Crisis and Despair
I reflect on Dr. Al-Issa’s opinion about interfaith dialogues during the Israel-Gaza war, drawing from my engagements, experiences, observations, and conversations.
25 Jan 2024: International Holocaust Remembrance Day
I joined friends in the candle-lighting ceremony for International Holocaust Remembrance Day and reflected on the prose of We Light our Candles
19 Jan 2024: Singapore Palestine Film Festival
The portrayal of Tarek's mother in "When I Saw You" deeply resonated with me. This movie, featured in the Singapore Palestine Film Festival 2024, represents a grassroots initiative exhibiting a curated collection of 10 thought-provoking films.
12 Jan 2024: A reflection on why South Africa v Israel in ICJ is important for the world now
Those of us dedicated to improving Jewish-Muslim relations and advocating for the adherence to international law, which is intended to safeguard all individuals, must recognize that this situation presents an opportunity to listen to both accusations and defences within the framework of a global tribunal.
4 Dec 2023: Israel-Hamas War: Reflecting on Role of Religion & Interfaith Leadership
A reflection on Dr Nazirudin Mohd Nasir's recent paper, "Dangers and Opportunities in the Role of Religion in the Israel-Hamas War," published by RSIS | S. Rajaratnam School of International Studies. Certain parts of the article could benefit from clarification and expansion. Nonetheless, the article prompts the question of whether religion can be a force for good in the context of this war.
2 Dec 2023: Bridging Divides Through Safe Space Dialogues on War in Gaza
As a facilitator, I helped facilitate a dialogue about the war in Gaza among Singaporeans of diverse identities. The honesty in the dialogue, with Singaporeans sharing personal feelings and experiences about a distant yet emotionally charged war, was particularly commendable.
5 Nov 2023: Israel-Hamas Conflict: Singapore's Stance and Interfaith
I engaged in a podcast with Singapore Minister Ong Ye Kung to discuss Singapore's stance on the Israel-Hamas conflict, offering insights as a Singaporean involved in interfaith initiatives, particularly fostering Jewish-Muslim dialogue.
24 Oct 2023: Understanding Our Feelings about the War
In this interfaith friendship, we pondered how to live with what is happening as individuals identifying with Judaism and Islam. It's not a religious conflict. That we know. But, we feel it impacts our religious identities, communities, and values.
29 Oct 2023: A Response to Actress Kangana Ranaut’s Visit to the Israel Embassy in New Delhi
I found the circulating video of Bollywood actress Kangana Ranaut visiting the Israeli embassy in New Delhi particularly disturbing. This is my response
22 Oct 2023: An Interfaith Observance for Peace, Safety, Harmony and Solidarity
Inter-Religious Organisation, Singapore, organised a gathering in which leaders and members of different religious communities came together to pray for a peaceful resolution to the Israel-Hamas conflict that has led to a humanitarian crisis in Gaza needing urgent attention.
15 Oct 2023: A Note of Solidarity to Fellow Bridge Builders
My interfaith peer Matt Anderson from America & I put out a message of solidarity to all bridge builders who are struggling to continue their world amidst the Israel-Gaza war